Tapping into the Wild : Take a Mindful Moment in your own Backyard
Let’s face it, life can be overwhelming…to the point of exhaustion. Sometimes I want to curl up in a little ball and nap my worries away. Which by the way is a lovely option, if you can afford the time. As a parent working part-time I find myself hurdling through each day, juggling schedules, pick-ups and drop offs, carpools, volunteering, my kids sporting events and performances, planning and shopping for family meals, planning the class I teach at our local University, grading tests and reviewing lecture notes, constantly bouncing between maintaining my career and my busy family life.
Then I turn the news on during one of my daily commutes around town and my world comes crumbling down as I learn about a hurricane that has devastated a community, or millions of people become refugees seeking asylum as their country unravels in war, or that soon there will be more pieces of plastic in the sea then there are fish. Sometimes it all feels like too much. Then I am jolted back to my local reality and have arrived at my kid’s school for pickup.
When we return home, my daughter tosses her backpack aside and beckons me to join her out in the yard. She insists I sit down in the grass with her, so she can show me the tiny fairy house that she has constructed with her Papa, beneath the canopy of a rhododendron. Little pebbles are pushed into the soil in a line to form stepping stones leading towards a tiny humble structure of twigs with a fern leaf roof. Bright yellow flower petals are sprinkled inside to create a soft landing for the hopeful visit of a miniature winged forest creature.
Feeling the soft cool grass between my fingers, I choose to give in to this moment. With a deep breath, I let all of my worries melt away and let the present moment soak in. I see the dappled light dancing on the leaves as a light breeze joins us. I see the elegant sculptural twist of a twig stretching from a branch and notice the deep mahogany color revealed beneath a peeling patch of bark. I watch an ant struggle to get around the uplifted bark as she makes her way down the twig, clearly on an important mission. I hear my daughter humming a quiet little tune as she continues to engineer her fragile twiggy structure. I tap into the realization that this precious little moment has me feeling completely at ease. I notice this feeling of being content, grateful and happy. I send a silent wish of love and healing out into the world and remind myself that I am doing the best I can with what I’ve got and where I have landed in this complicated life… and that it is this moment that I need to be present in. And then I let myself embrace the thought that …it will all be ok.
When I pay close attention to the tiny delicate details in nature, from watching a leaf flicker in the wind or noticing the intricate patterns of veins in a leaf, with a deep breathe a gentle peace fills me. Give it a try.
If you would like to learn more about daily mindfulness practice check out this post.
